😍 Thai Relationships with Farangs | Loneliness in Thailand? | TIMyT 046

In both my member site and here on my YouTube channel I always get asked, “will I be lonely living in Thailand?”

A lot of people will say Farang – bar-girl relationships are doomed from the start. I can tell you that statistically the chances for a bad experience increase dramatically. In most instances a girl that has lied to make a living for a period of months or years will probably have a hard time to start telling you the truth about everything she is doing, the friends she has, the guys she knows abroad that are sending her money for years after you’ve married her… the different bank accounts, the numerous cell phone SIM cards she has. It just comes with the territory in most, but not all, cases. My question is, would you date a bar-girl in your own country? If not than why would you date or marry one here?

I know being alone for many is an unpleasant experience. I always suggest getting comfortable alone first, then go out and find somebody that meshes well with your personality and lifestyle.

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I understand the temptation must be overwhelming to some, especially when they meet Thai women who give them some needed attention. Heck, some Farang might not have had a girlfriend for a while or even ever and they come to Thailand and suddenly they have 3 girls all fawning over them making them feel incredible and making promises to love them long time.

A typical Farang is going to be duped into believing what they want to hear and can easily be led down the path to marriage.

Typically what happens is once the girl knows your weak points they will play the game until the money stops flowing or slows down to a level that isn’t worth their time anymore and then move on.

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Farang that come to Thailand looking for a girl they they feel they have the possibility of spending the rest of their life with look for certain qualities not found in the typical bar girls but can be found in the Isaan women they meet throughout the days that are doing typical work in typical businesses.

My advice is to look for a girls that feel you are more important than her phone! One that doesn’t constantly mention money throughout the day or week.

If you don’t find a relationship like this the be prepared for some emotional pain. Excellent relationships exist in Thailand and can be found but it takes more effort than just going to a bar and finding someone who will talk to you and make you feel “wanted”.

Invest time into your relationship. The great thing about Thailand is that it’s easy to start a conversation and talk to people you don’t know. Just be kind and friendly. That will go a long way towards finding a partner that will treat you right and that your compatible with. Put a little time into it, don’t be rushed and feeling that there is scarcity like back home and see what you can find. Your chances for finding a lasting relationship will improve dramatically by just following your intuition and letting the right head do the thinking!

Remember, there’s always an option!

Edited by Panda Sathaisong 🐼
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